Dear Jasmin

I “woke up” in my dream and rolled over to snuggle with my man. After a couple of minutes, another person snuggles the other side of me, so I am sandwiched between two bodies. I was very scared and I had a conversation with one of them in my head. It went like this:
who are you?
Does it matter?
I am scared
Don’t be scared
Am I supposed to ask you something?
Nope, just go to sleep
But I’m scared
Shhhhh, relax
How am I supposed to relax?
Just go to sleep
But you’re scaring me
No I’m not, I’m just lying here
I want to see your face
Then turn on the light
(I switch the light on, but it doesn’t work)
its not working
funny that, try the other one
(I get out of bed and try the main light, but it doesn’t work either… he is standing right next to me but its too dark to see him properly)
it doesn’t work either
I noticed. Lets go back to bed
(I hesitate, but then go back to bed. He snuggles behind me again)
actually, you’re not all that scary
that’s right, lets go to sleep
(I spend a long time lying between them nervously before I eventually relax and fall asleep. Not scared anymore)

Dear Dreamer

Well Polly … You sassy girl… 2 men in your bed hmmm???
It appears to me that this dream is talking about accepting the darkness and realizing that it really is not so bad. The fear you felt was self created, becasue neither person was actually doing anything to scare you. At first it was simply their presence that brought fear to your mind. When you realized that they were not going any where you accepted their presence. It was made clear that it doesn’t matter who this person is, what matters is that they are accepted. It was also clear that this is represented in the darkness, meaning the shadow aspect of self. This is where you found fear, where you found a challenge. Is there an aspect of you that enjoys creating acts of fear and darkness in the bedroom? Accept it. Then realize that the fear may actually be blocking you, it was when you let go of the fear that you got what you wanted.

Sweet Dreams !